Statement on Marriage, Gender & Sexuality

Pontiac Bible Church recognizes that there are and will be persons who experience gender dysphoria and/or gender confusion (Romans 2:26-27). Such experiences can be very complex and emotional to work through and, for some, incredibly personal, painful, shame-burdening & confusing. Such individuals can be mistakenly convinced that gender and biological sex are entirely separate. When this happens, an individual’s gender merely represents one’s true, inner self, even if it is inconsistent with one’s physical sex. Unfortunately, this avenue of reasoning eliminates the distinctions between a man and a woman that God Himself created and called good (Genesis 1:27). As such, the view of biological sex and gender as separate entities is contrary to the divine reality of our true, God-given human nature. Pontiac Bible Church desires to be a loving environment while upholding the truth of God’s Word and His design made in His image.

A person experiencing gender dysphoria or confusion is not excluded from Pontiac Bible Church life or activities simply because he or she is experiencing gender dysphoria, gender confusion or gender attraction. However, those persons who choose to openly express disagreement with Pontiac Bible Church’s teaching on matters of sex, sexuality, and/or gender in an inappropriate way or in a way that is disparaging to any aspect or anyone associated with Pontiac Bible Church, will be subject to restrictions on his or her participation in the life of Pontiac Bible Church, and in appropriate cases, to ongoing discipleship both for that person’s own good and/or the good of others. Pontiac Bible Church will uphold the truths and principles of God’s Word while seeking to walk alongside those experiencing gender dysphoria and/or confusion. Jesus provided a model for us to walk with those in need and to do it in truth and grace. Though these Biblical guidelines must be adhered to, it will not affect our love and desire to love and serve those created in the image of God and for His glory.

Parental Notification
In the case of a person who is a minor, if and when a member of the staff or pastors or elders become aware that a minor is experiencing gender dysphoria or confusion, a parent/guardian will be contacted that the leadership is aware and will make other pertinent leaders aware. Leadership will work with the parents while maintaining the teaching of God’s Word and abiding by the reasonings laid out in this document.

Pronouns and Names
Only pronouns that accurately reflect a person’s God-given biological sex shall be used when addressing that person (whether a minor or an adult) (Isaiah 5:20). No person may designate “preferred pronouns” in speech or in writing and Pontiac Bible Church will not permit that designation by any person associated with Pontiac Bible Church leadership, partners, attendees, or guests. Whether a minor or adult, nicknames shall not be used if that nickname’s purpose is to a)obscure or contradict the person’s God-given biological sex, b)Or, promote the idea that one’s gender is different or fluid disregarding one’s God-given biological sex.

Bathrooms/Facilities
When using Pontiac Bible Church’s bathrooms or facilities, all persons must use the bathrooms or other facilities that correspond with their God-given biological sex. However, a single-user bathroom is currently available.
Conduct
No person within Pontiac Bible Church or on behalf of Pontiac Bible Church may publicly advocate or celebrate sexual orientation or identity in ways that are contrary to God’s Word or the reasonings set forth in this document. There will be no displays of PRIDE/LGBTQ+ symbols on Pontiac Bible Church’s property. This section does not prohibit the respectful discussion or debate of matters of sexuality and gender dysphoria in the appropriate setting or forum, as determined in the sole discretion of Pontiac Bible Church Leadership.

Records
All Pontiac Bible Church records, including database information and documents, shall reflect a person’s God-given biological sex and legal name. In the case of a change of legal name, existing records on file shall be kept and maintained without alteration.